Monday, November 21, 2011

Hello everyone. It's hailing outside.
Last few shabbosim I stayed in the dorm, exclusively :) as you may have all seen pictures of my shabbos table (taken on Motzei shabbos silly!)
Today I took my second Psychology clep and I passed!!!! Hashem loves me!
anyways, the big question i want to ask everyone is:
Can you see the writing on this page?
i'm looking at it and i've noticed that i can't read parts of it b/c the white blends in with the background colors.... Its driving me crazy for 2 reasons
1. I don't think it has always been like that
2. I can't figure out how to fix it!!!
how frustrating?!?
okay, anyways. I miss everyone!
Keep me and my college tests in mind in your prayers!
xoxoxo

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Rain rain- come today... for now we have begun to pray :)

Well, we started praying for rain people... did you know that during the first maariv saying V'Sen Tal in Israel it started raining? Now that's a bracha!
Nothing interesting happened last week other than me studying like a maniac. Oh- and i started getting over my cold.

Shabbos I stayed in the dorm and ate meals by a classmates cousins with her and 3 other girls. I did try to hold onto the ideals of our previous shabbos so i did make a shabbos table even with a real tablecloth this time! I also cleaned the whole dira and it felt great! Unfortunately we had Shalosh seudos plans. We walked into Har Nof in guess what? The pouring rain!
We made it there soaking wet but in high spirits!! The meal was nice. We got a ride back after shabbos and did Melava Malke in the dorm. It wasn't quite so uplifting... I did do some guitar practicing though and i think i'm doing pretty good for not having played since 2 summers ago. :)
Sunday i studied. Monday i took my psych test... and directly afterward i collected the 400 page college textbooks to begin studying for the next psych test :D {big sarcastic smile}
Anyways- at least its a subject that interests me.
Today I have contracted a new "sick" in the dorm. Its even more lovely because i haven't completely gotten over the last 2. I think i'm going to get some onions and garlic and start a bacteria catcher.... i'll let you know if it works :)
And now for the joke of the day:
What do an Elephant and a plum have in common?
They are both purple except for the elephant.... lol :)
[i actually thought that was hysterical]

alright people- don't give up on me! keep emailing and trying to keep in touch with me... it really makes a difference!
Love, shayne




Tuesday, November 8, 2011

The Cold's 'Acomin... sniffle

So 2 weeks ago, there is nothing interesting to write about other than the fact that I begun studying for a psychology clep which was really interesting. I love random things like the fact that infants are correctly termed "neonates". And seeing silly and obvious truths like children in the age between 5 and 10 years of age are in the "Identity vs Inferiority" stage according to the great psychosocial theorist Erik Erikson. :)
Anyways, I also had a bad cold and besides for that it was cooooold outside! Brrrrrr!!!!! lol- we have the funniest situation actually... so the heat hasn't been turned on yet in the school (as we were told 'we are waiting for people to start complaining') But our room in particular seemed to be so very much colder than anywhere else in the dorm and it was driving us crazy. And particularly one roommate of mine simply could not sleep for how cold she was! Anyways, one fine morning we were all sitting around talking and one of the roommates was sitting on this girls top bunk bed when she suddenly calls "Shaaaayne" I came hurrying over to find out what she could be looking at... turns out she could see Angels bakery through the wall over this girls head. :)
I'm not joking about this one. There is a palm sized hole from the drywall all the way through the jerusalem stone of the outer building structure which had been plugged up with tissues and tape. I guess it was lucky the tissues began to disintegrate when they did, and that someone saw it- otherwise we might have freezed our tushes off all winter!
No wonder our room couldn't get over our sick!

shabbos [Oct. 29]
Here is the beautiful, and inspiring thing that will probably stay with me throughout the rest of my life...
Friday the girls and I propped 2 bed boards across garbage cans and covered them with a white sheet before shabbos. Then we put a vase of flowers [donated by a friends family in honor of her birthday] in the center and lit our candles there. I also donated my new shabbos Challa cover to the mix... It looked stunning. We really felt like we were getting ready for our own shabbos! we ran around all friday cleaning and making the place sparkle with a Taam of home. We cut toilet paper and taped lights, ripped wrappers and tried to be ready in time to take shabbos 40 minutes before shkiah as per the minhag yerushalym.
Friday night meal I had the seuda in Givat Shaul with my P'ninis.... and Shabbos day i went with the seminar crowd to a classmate in Har Nof.
But Shalosh Seudos was something to be witnessed... A bunch of groups of girls had bought little amounts of food to eat at shalosh seudos without realizing that anybody else would be doing the same thing. But by shalosh seudos time we all found ourselves around our beautifully set shabbos table... the one made out of garbage cans, bedboards, and bedsheets... Our humble little shabbos table. Combining our food we found that there was more than enough to go around- and how! Really it was a feast. We brought up song books and sang and sang, and I said a dvar torah since I was the shabbos tatty :) We also realized that we could do a Mizumenet.
And as we were told- Al Pi Halacha, its a machlokes whether or not its obligated, but its certainly a nice thing to do. And that's how i found myself leading the Mezumenet- "Chavroti N'varech!"
By the time we were ready to let shabbos out we discovered that it was past Rabeinu tam! We did havdala but were on such a shabbos high that we decided to go straight into Melave Malke. Someone ran to put on Melava Malka music on her laptop and I got a Chanukia and 4 candles. We lit candles, rewashed, ate a czais of bread, and sang some more.
And that was probably the most meaningful shabbos of my life.




Rain rain- come today... for now we have begun to pray :)

Well, we started praying for rain people... did you know that during the first maariv saying V'Sen Tal in Israel it started raining? Now that's a bracha!
Nothing interesting happened last week other than me studying like a maniac. Oh- and i started getting over my cold.

Shabbos I stayed in the dorm and ate meals by a classmates cousins with her and 3 other girls. I did try to hold onto the ideals of our previous shabbos so i did make a shabbos table even with a real tablecloth this time! I also cleaned the whole dira and it felt great! Unfortunately we had Shalosh seudos plans. We walked into Har Nof in guess what? The pouring rain!
We made it there soaking wet but in high spirits!! The meal was nice. We got a ride back after shabbos and did Melava Malke in the dorm. It wasn't quite so uplifting... I did do some guitar practicing though and i think i'm doing pretty good for not having played since 2 summers ago. :)
Sunday i studied. Monday i took my psych test... and directly afterward i collected the 400 page college textbooks to begin studying for the next psych test :D {big sarcastic smile}
Anyways- at least its a subject that interests me.
Today I have contracted a new "sick" in the dorm. Its even more lovely because i haven't completely gotten over the last 2. I think i'm going to get some onions and garlic and start a bacteria catcher.... i'll let you know if it works :)
And now for the joke of the day:
What do an Elephant and a plum have in common?
They are both purple except for the elephant.... lol :)
[i actually thought that was hysterical]

alright people- don't give up on me! keep emailing and trying to keep in touch with me... it really makes a difference!
Love, shayne





Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Lousy Sukkot? Maybe, maybe not...

Sukkos- Hello, so this is the month of October in a nutshell. First day of Sukkos I spent in Beit Shemesh at my teacher’s parents house. They had a beautiful sukkah in their backyard and the weather was gorgeous. Thursday night I went back to the dorm and Friday I spent celebrating the Chag of Sukkot with my roommates and the rest of the P’ninim girls who were keeping 2 days. I ate meals with them and sang… I turned off the gas oven for them… lol. Friday night I was in Givat Shaul and Shabbos day in Rachavia. After my meal I stopped over at a friend from sem this year who taught me how to play perpetual commotion.

Chol Hamoed- We had a simchat Beit Hashoeva. On the agenda was a drama-musical performance by a professional writer and artist. The presentation lasted for close to 2 hours and people were pretty bored by the end. It didn’t help that the mic and amp system didn’t end up working and we were all sitting Indian style on the floor. Then me and another girl said dvar torah’s having to do with sukkot. I spoke about a concept that is very dear to me and holds a lot of personal meaning. I talked about Sukkot being a time of open miracles. About the fact that Hashem is involved in everyday life even to the point of making miracles for us if that is what it takes. I brought out the lesson from tracing Bnei Israel’s travels in the dessert and focused on the Clouds of Glory and their significance. I was really nervous to say it and was hoping that I wouldn’t have to but in the end I got coerced by teachers and friends. The important thing is that I got to speak from my heart. Afterward I was glad I did it.

One of the days I organized a trip for whoever wanted to come to the Rose Garden of Jerusalem which is an absolutely stunning garden with waterfalls and ponds, flowers, and arches- only a 15 minute walk from our building! I bought frizbees and packed lunches for everyone. A few hours before we left for the park one of the girls electrocuted herself in the socket and was told to go to the ER to make certain she was okay. Fortunately this girl is used to weird and unexplainable things happening to her, such as knocking herself unconscious on a low ceiling in the presence of Rabbi Meisels… Confusion of foot (as per medical records)… and other such creative things. So while some of us packed up to go, the others were sitting in Terem waiting for a diagnosis. In the end we all met up and spent an amazing long afternoon in the park, splashing in the water in our black tights, eating, talking, playing frizbee and hacky sack, taking pictures, and teasing the girl who got electrocuted. At one point she even had earphones in and looked like she was playing music… only after a few seconds did someone realize the ipod was on the ground and the earphones were being held up to her finger. J lol- it was a blast!

Erev Chag I set up a small room outside the madricha dira for yom tov. I set the table with tablecloths and a challa cover and put out chandles and my siddur… It really felt like it was going to be yom tov! Doing my own chag was the most uplifting thing for me- it felt the most like home. Simchat Torah night I went shul hopping by hakkafot and then joined my friends family in Givat Shaul for the seuda. The next day I woke up sick… which was no surprise seeing as my whole room had sinus infections for about a week already. I ate the meal in with challa and kugel from Ariella and other food I bought from Hadar Geula on Wednesday just for the occasion. Then I spent the rest of that day with friends and my roommates who were in the dorm. Thursday night my Israelli friends dragged me out to Hakafot Shniot in Craft Stadium. There was a band and hundreds of woman dancing their hearts out on the other side of a 10 foot mechitza from the men. From Chassdish women to Datti Leumi were there all dancing for the torah and having a blast! I felt so part of the culture… so Israelli- it was amazing!!!

I got back to the dorm close to 1:00 and everyone was sleeping but the next morning I joined them for their yomtov meal before leaving to catch a bus to Ramot for Shabbos.

Shabbos- Shabbos I was in Ramot by the Davis family. They have a daughter who is both in Chedvas at night and also in Michal Gershaw’s class during the day. I really enjoyed being there and have so much hakarat hatov to Rikki and the Davis family for taking such good care of me especially while I was sick.

Sunday after Sukkot I called my college advisor and switched to a Psychology Major. I am really excited about it and will Imy”H take my first Psych test this Monday [keep me in mind in ur tefillot!] So I basically studied all week without break until Shabbos.

I spent Last Shabbos in with 2 of my roommates. Friday night I went with a group of fellow P’nini’s to a friend’s house and we discussed with her mother Chinese Medicine (because she is a nurse and an expert at evaluation, prevention, and treatment of diseases through herbal remedies). Shabbos Day I went with the Seminar/Chedvas crowd to an Israelli Chedvas girl in Har Nof. We really had a blast and also borrowed books from their enormous Jewish library.

This week the whole Chedvas has lice. I kept getting checked hoping that I wasn’t going to get it but chances were nil… I got a few nits- and was bugging out! Pun intended. When my Em Bayit was checking me and finding them she was trying to calm me down and tell me how little I had and that it was practically nothing compared to certain dira mates who might have had close to 800 plus bugs…. And I just couldn’t talk cause I was scared if I tried I would just throw up… Then she got nervous. I remember this conversation going on around me in my semi-incapacitated state…

“Shayne… Shayne? Don’t do this to me… What are you thinking?”

My roommate, “Lice really makes Shayne nervous.”

Em Bayit, “Okay, but its not so bad-“

“I don’t think you understand Mrs. Lorch- Lice is the ONLY thing that makes Shayne nervous.”

“Oh…”

So for all you American's i have a new article: How To Get Rid of Lice 101

  1. Shower
  2. Put globs and globs of conditioner in your hair
  3. Use a comb that pulls all your hair out and Comb Your Hair for HOURS.
  4. Boil the Comb
  5. Take another Shower
  6. Repeat steps 1-5 repeatedly until you stop finding whatever it is you are finding.
  7. Check the next day
  8. Check the next day- and if you find anything new... Start over from the beginning and this time use Rosemary Oil (bleh!) :) lol

Anyways, I only had a few nits and then we combed and checked and now I don’t… but i haven’t been sleeping with any linen or blankets b/c I’m scared of lice so I’m suffocating everything that either I or any of my roommates came in contact with before the lice was over (including my teddy bear Sir Lancelot) in order to kill the lice. I have also been wearing hats. Today Rabbi Kahane caught me going to class in a hat and told me i couldn't wear it because i wasn't refined. So 15 minutes later found me in Rabbi Orlofsky's class with a Mitpachat. And guess what he was talking about... Marriage. lmto- i raised my class to answer one of his questions and he asked me if i was married b/c if i was then it would be no fair to play. :) and just in case any of you are wondering as to my response- the correct answer is NO. I am NOT married.

Anyways, that’s my life! All in all, it was a month I will remember positively… even the lousy part :}